Do you have a list? Not one of those “honey-do” lists of what we would like to have done around the house, like fixing the dripping faucet or cleaning the garage. I’m talking about a list of your husband’s failures.
What would you tell a counselor or your best friend when no one else is around? Your list can consist of large hurtful failures and small aggravations, sometimes the same actions and attitudes performed over and over again. Each time a new failure occurs, it is added to the list.